How does one find a submissive lover?  Not by just hoping to bump into one in the course of one's daily life.  Although it is true that there is a strange electricity generated when a Dominant and a submissive meet.  That is my experience anyway - but then again my intuition is razor sharp - for a man, that is.

No, one really has to search. What would I have done without the internet?  There are dating sites that cater for those already in relationships (have I mentioned that I am married?) and there are, of course, those that cater for people with an interest in BDSM.  I avoid the latter completely.  They seem full of needy women, or hardened submissives who are more focussed on the mechanical than the emotional.  And it is all far too extreme.

My goal is the woman who has yearned and ached for surrender all her life but never found a partner sensitive enough to take her on the path. A submissive virgin. A woman who is intelligent, strong and wildly romantic.  And longs for a Master.

There is one particular dating site on which I have contacted a number of women who, from something between the lines in their profile, just suggest that they might have that desire in their soul.  I don't try to fool them, or trick them, or seduce them without being clear.  There would be no point. 

As of today there a couple of faint possibilities.